"I've had women tell me that when their daughters see them taking care of themselves, and being defined from within, and thinking for themselves instead of thinking about that silly culture out there, it's powerful modeling"
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The phrase “defined from within” is the engine. It reframes identity as an inside job, the kind of self-authorship that doesn’t need permission from magazines, men, or the algorithm. When she calls it “that silly culture out there,” she’s not naive about its power; she’s puncturing it. “Silly” is a weaponized understatement, a way to mock the enormity of beauty norms and consumer pressures without letting them sound inevitable. She’s refusing to grant the culture the dignity of being feared.
The context is generational: mothers are always teaching, even when they think they’re just getting through the day. Judd’s subtext is that daughters don’t learn confidence from lectures; they learn it from what they watch their mothers tolerate and prioritize. Taking care of yourself becomes a visible stance: I am not an accessory to my life. In a music industry that profited from women being packaged and palatable, Judd’s point lands as both personal and pointed: the most “powerful modeling” is a woman refusing to outsource her self-definition.
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Judd, Naomi. (2026, January 16). I've had women tell me that when their daughters see them taking care of themselves, and being defined from within, and thinking for themselves instead of thinking about that silly culture out there, it's powerful modeling. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-women-tell-me-that-when-their-daughters-104895/
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Judd, Naomi. "I've had women tell me that when their daughters see them taking care of themselves, and being defined from within, and thinking for themselves instead of thinking about that silly culture out there, it's powerful modeling." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-women-tell-me-that-when-their-daughters-104895/.
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"I've had women tell me that when their daughters see them taking care of themselves, and being defined from within, and thinking for themselves instead of thinking about that silly culture out there, it's powerful modeling." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-had-women-tell-me-that-when-their-daughters-104895/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.







