"I've learned that it's OK to be flawed"
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The phrasing is deliberately modest: “it’s OK” isn’t a victory lap, it’s permission. That smallness matters. In a culture that treats women’s imperfections as either scandal or content, Ryder’s sentence refuses both extremes. She doesn’t reframe flaws as “superpowers,” doesn’t insist pain was secretly productive. She simply claims the right to be unfinished. The subtext is a rejection of the impossible contract fame offers women: be talented, be desirable, be relatable, but never be messy.
Context deepens it. Ryder’s career has been a long oscillation between icon and cautionary tale, with tabloid scrutiny turning private vulnerability into public narrative. Later, her return via Stranger Things reintroduced her to a generation primed for mental-health language but still hungry for moral clarity. “Flawed” becomes a strategic word: softer than “broken,” less marketable than “perfect,” more adult than “quirky.” It’s an assertion of humanity in an industry that rewards performance even offscreen. The intent isn’t confession; it’s boundary-setting.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ryder, Winona. (2026, January 16). I've learned that it's OK to be flawed. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-learned-that-its-ok-to-be-flawed-106916/
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Ryder, Winona. "I've learned that it's OK to be flawed." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-learned-that-its-ok-to-be-flawed-106916/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've learned that it's OK to be flawed." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-learned-that-its-ok-to-be-flawed-106916/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









