"I've lived most of my life in Manhattan, but as close as Brooklyn is to Manhattan, there are people who live there who have been to Manhattan maybe once or twice"
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The intent is observational, but the subtext is about boundaries that aren’t on maps. “As close as Brooklyn is” sets up a logical expectation (of course everyone goes), then the punchline flips it. That reversal exposes how class, work schedules, neighborhood identity, and social networks can make two boroughs feel worlds apart. It’s also a quiet comment on how Manhattan functions as both magnet and gatekeeper: the center of money, prestige, and cultural validation, but not necessarily the center of everyone’s life.
Burstyn’s phrasing is deliberately plain, almost conversational, which gives it credibility. She’s not lecturing; she’s marveling. The line carries a faint incredulity that mirrors Manhattan’s tendency to assume it’s the default setting, while also admiring Brooklyn’s self-sufficiency. In a moment when Brooklyn has been branded, priced, and exported as an aesthetic, her anecdote drags the conversation back to the unglamorous reality: plenty of people live in New York without ever needing the postcard version.
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| Topic | Life |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Burstyn, Ellen. (2026, January 15). I've lived most of my life in Manhattan, but as close as Brooklyn is to Manhattan, there are people who live there who have been to Manhattan maybe once or twice. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-lived-most-of-my-life-in-manhattan-but-as-144896/
Chicago Style
Burstyn, Ellen. "I've lived most of my life in Manhattan, but as close as Brooklyn is to Manhattan, there are people who live there who have been to Manhattan maybe once or twice." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-lived-most-of-my-life-in-manhattan-but-as-144896/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've lived most of my life in Manhattan, but as close as Brooklyn is to Manhattan, there are people who live there who have been to Manhattan maybe once or twice." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-lived-most-of-my-life-in-manhattan-but-as-144896/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.




