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Love & Passion Quote by Julia Roberts

"I've never had to pretend to be having sex with somebody. I'm like the queen of the foreplay dissolve"

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Roberts slips a very Hollywood complaint into a punchline: the camera always cuts away right before the “real” work begins. Calling herself “the queen of the foreplay dissolve” is both a brag and a sly indictment of how mainstream cinema packages sex as atmosphere rather than action. It’s not prudishness so much as choreography: her star persona thrives in the pre-sex electricity (banter, proximity, the almost-touch) and the industry, eager to keep a romantic lead “accessible,” happily meets her there.

The joke lands because it’s technical. “Dissolve” is editing jargon, a nerdy little lever that turns bodies into implication. Roberts is essentially saying: my job isn’t explicit simulation; my job is to sell the moment right before the fade-out so hard that audiences supply the rest. That’s an acting flex, but it’s also a comment on a system that values her charm more than her sexuality, and often treats the latter as something to be suggested, not embodied.

There’s a gendered bargain underneath the quip. For decades, women stars were marketed as both desirable and “safe,” erotic without being too erotic, intimate without being messy. Roberts’ line acknowledges that bargain while laughing at it, positioning her control (I never “had to”) alongside the mechanism that protects her image. It’s candor dressed as comedy: the scene ends, the fantasy continues, and everyone gets to pretend that’s realism.

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Roberts, Julia. (2026, January 16). I've never had to pretend to be having sex with somebody. I'm like the queen of the foreplay dissolve. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-never-had-to-pretend-to-be-having-sex-with-96328/

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Roberts, Julia. "I've never had to pretend to be having sex with somebody. I'm like the queen of the foreplay dissolve." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-never-had-to-pretend-to-be-having-sex-with-96328/.

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"I've never had to pretend to be having sex with somebody. I'm like the queen of the foreplay dissolve." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-never-had-to-pretend-to-be-having-sex-with-96328/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.

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Julia Roberts (born October 28, 1967) is a Actress from USA.

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