"I've never wanted anybody to like me because I had long hair or short hair, or that they liked the way I dressed or they liked the way I dressed or they liked the way I smile"
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The intent is defensive but also aspirational. He wants to be liked, if at all, for something that can’t be bought at a store or changed before a show. In country music - especially the outlaw strain Coe helped embody - authenticity is currency, and it’s always under threat of being counterfeited. Hair, clothes, “the way I smile” are the costume department of authenticity: the cheap shortcuts fans and industry people use to decide what’s “real.” Coe’s career sits in that tension. He cultivated an image that invited mythmaking, then resented the fact that myth can swallow the music.
Subtextually, it’s also a preemptive strike against being reduced to palatability. If people like you for the smile, they can demand the smile. Coe is drawing a boundary: don’t confuse my presentation for my person; don’t confuse your taste for my truth.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Coe, David Allan. (2026, January 17). I've never wanted anybody to like me because I had long hair or short hair, or that they liked the way I dressed or they liked the way I dressed or they liked the way I smile. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-never-wanted-anybody-to-like-me-because-i-had-51702/
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Coe, David Allan. "I've never wanted anybody to like me because I had long hair or short hair, or that they liked the way I dressed or they liked the way I dressed or they liked the way I smile." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-never-wanted-anybody-to-like-me-because-i-had-51702/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've never wanted anybody to like me because I had long hair or short hair, or that they liked the way I dressed or they liked the way I dressed or they liked the way I smile." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-never-wanted-anybody-to-like-me-because-i-had-51702/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.









