"I've often had people ask me, would you allow a homosexual to be your friend. Yes, I will. And the reason I will is because I know that that person has problems, and if I can minister to those problems, I will"
About this Quote
That rhetorical move is vintage late-20th-century American respectability politics around sexuality: tolerance as long as it comes with the promise of change. It’s an older bargain that sounds compassionate in the speaker’s moral vocabulary while still marking the other person as broken. The phrasing also protects White from charges of hate. He can claim love, even friendship, while keeping the doctrinal line intact. It’s not “I accept you,” it’s “I’ll be near you so I can fix you.”
Context matters because White wasn’t just an NFL icon; he was publicly devout, part of an era when prominent athletes often served as cultural pastors for mainstream audiences. The quote reveals how “love the sinner” rhetoric functions socially: it offers proximity without equality, kindness without affirmation. It’s a reminder that inclusion can be packaged as benevolence while still enforcing a moral pecking order.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
White, Reggie. (2026, January 16). I've often had people ask me, would you allow a homosexual to be your friend. Yes, I will. And the reason I will is because I know that that person has problems, and if I can minister to those problems, I will. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-often-had-people-ask-me-would-you-allow-a-120766/
Chicago Style
White, Reggie. "I've often had people ask me, would you allow a homosexual to be your friend. Yes, I will. And the reason I will is because I know that that person has problems, and if I can minister to those problems, I will." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-often-had-people-ask-me-would-you-allow-a-120766/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've often had people ask me, would you allow a homosexual to be your friend. Yes, I will. And the reason I will is because I know that that person has problems, and if I can minister to those problems, I will." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-often-had-people-ask-me-would-you-allow-a-120766/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







