"I've played Henry Fonda's mother so often that, whenever we run into each other, I call him 'son' and he calls me 'Ma', just to save time"
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Darwell, a quintessential character actress, is also quietly asserting her place in an ecosystem that often treated supporting players as interchangeable. If the star gets to be Henry Fonda, the dependable maternal presence gets to be “Henry Fonda’s mother” across films, across years, across casting needs. Her line acknowledges that typecasting is both a trap and a kind of tenure: the job is repetitive, but it’s steady, and it grants a peculiar authority. Calling him “son” reverses the hierarchy for a second, letting the “mother” claim him in public, even if only as a bit.
The subtext is collegial, not bitter. The fact that Fonda plays along signals mutual respect: the private shorthand of colleagues who’ve built a shared mythology for the camera. It’s also a sly reminder that Hollywood’s familial feelings are often manufactured, rehearsed, and contractual - yet, through repetition, they can start to feel real enough to become a running joke in everyday life.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Darwell, Jane. (2026, January 16). I've played Henry Fonda's mother so often that, whenever we run into each other, I call him 'son' and he calls me 'Ma', just to save time. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-played-henry-fondas-mother-so-often-that-128028/
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Darwell, Jane. "I've played Henry Fonda's mother so often that, whenever we run into each other, I call him 'son' and he calls me 'Ma', just to save time." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-played-henry-fondas-mother-so-often-that-128028/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've played Henry Fonda's mother so often that, whenever we run into each other, I call him 'son' and he calls me 'Ma', just to save time." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-played-henry-fondas-mother-so-often-that-128028/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



