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Wealth & Money Quote by Yancy Butler

"I've spent a lot of time and money trying to keep my anger in control"

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There is a special kind of exhaustion embedded in that line: not the righteous exhaustion of fighting the world, but the private burnout of fighting yourself with receipts. By pairing "time and money", Yancy Butler frames anger management less as a personality quirk and more as an ongoing, costly project - like rehab, therapy, lawyers, lost jobs, cleanup. The phrasing suggests experience with systems that monetize self-regulation: professionals, programs, prescriptions, PR containment. Anger, here, isn’t romanticized fire; it’s an expense line.

As an actress, Butler’s subtext also lives in the economics of employability. Hollywood sells intensity on screen and punishes it off camera. A man’s volatility can be rebranded as genius; a woman’s anger becomes a liability to insure, schedule, or "deal with". Saying she’s tried to keep it "in control" reads like a concession to an industry that demands palatable emotions and constant performative pleasantness. The word "keep" matters: control isn’t achieved once, it’s maintained, daily, under pressure.

The intent feels both confessional and defensive. She isn’t asking to be excused; she’s insisting that anger has a history, and that she’s paid dearly to manage it. It’s a quiet rebuttal to the lazy narrative of the "difficult" actress: the work is happening, it’s just not glamorous work, and it doesn’t come with applause.

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Yancy Butler (born July 2, 1970) is a Actress from USA.

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