"I've spent a lot of time and money trying to keep my anger in control"
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As an actress, Butler’s subtext also lives in the economics of employability. Hollywood sells intensity on screen and punishes it off camera. A man’s volatility can be rebranded as genius; a woman’s anger becomes a liability to insure, schedule, or "deal with". Saying she’s tried to keep it "in control" reads like a concession to an industry that demands palatable emotions and constant performative pleasantness. The word "keep" matters: control isn’t achieved once, it’s maintained, daily, under pressure.
The intent feels both confessional and defensive. She isn’t asking to be excused; she’s insisting that anger has a history, and that she’s paid dearly to manage it. It’s a quiet rebuttal to the lazy narrative of the "difficult" actress: the work is happening, it’s just not glamorous work, and it doesn’t come with applause.
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| Topic | Anger |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Butler, Yancy. (2026, January 15). I've spent a lot of time and money trying to keep my anger in control. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-spent-a-lot-of-time-and-money-trying-to-keep-96089/
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Butler, Yancy. "I've spent a lot of time and money trying to keep my anger in control." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-spent-a-lot-of-time-and-money-trying-to-keep-96089/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've spent a lot of time and money trying to keep my anger in control." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-spent-a-lot-of-time-and-money-trying-to-keep-96089/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.









