"I've struggled just as much as anyone else"
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The phrasing matters. "Just as much" doesn’t ask for special sympathy; it insists on equal footing. She’s refusing the pedestal and the resentment that comes with it, signaling, I know what rent feels like, what rejection feels like, what doubt does to your body. "Anyone else" widens the frame beyond the music industry, resisting the myth that creative careers are a different species of hardship, either glamorous or self-inflicted. It’s populist in the best sense: solidarity as a credibility move.
The subtext is also gendered. Women in rock have historically been asked to justify their presence: either as anomalies, beneficiaries, or mascots. Valentine’s sentence is a small defense against that scrutiny. Struggle becomes a credential, a way of saying she didn’t get carried; she carried herself. It lands because it doesn’t litigate specifics. It leaves space for listeners to project their own battles onto hers, turning biography into a bridge rather than a brand.
Quote Details
| Topic | Tough Times |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Valentine, Kathy. (2026, January 16). I've struggled just as much as anyone else. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-struggled-just-as-much-as-anyone-else-107558/
Chicago Style
Valentine, Kathy. "I've struggled just as much as anyone else." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-struggled-just-as-much-as-anyone-else-107558/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've struggled just as much as anyone else." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-struggled-just-as-much-as-anyone-else-107558/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




