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Daily Inspiration Quote by Susannah York

"I've struggled so hard to reign in my temper because it actually terrifies me"

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Temper here isn’t a cute personality quirk; it’s framed as a live wire. Susannah York’s line works because it refuses the usual celebrity confessional arc where “I used to be fiery” becomes a flattering myth of passion. She goes the other way: the temper is not empowering, it’s frightening. That single word - “terrifies” - collapses the distance between emotion and consequence. It hints at collateral damage, the sense that anger can outpace intention and leave you watching yourself from the outside.

The phrasing “reign in” (not “rein in,” though the slip is common) is telling: she imagines anger as something that wants to rule. That’s a performer’s insight, too. Actors traffic in controlled intensity; York is describing what happens when the intensity stops being craft and starts being compulsion. “I’ve struggled so hard” doesn’t glamorize the work of self-control as self-improvement; it marks it as survival, a private discipline that never quite ends.

Context matters: York came up in an era that rewarded women for poise and punished them for volatility, while quietly tolerating male rage as genius or authority. Her admission carries the double bind: manage it or be labeled “difficult,” fail to manage it and fear your own capacity to hurt people you love. The subtext is accountability without melodrama - an adult recognition that anger can be both justified and dangerous, and that the scariest part is how familiar it feels.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
York, Susannah. (2026, January 16). I've struggled so hard to reign in my temper because it actually terrifies me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-struggled-so-hard-to-reign-in-my-temper-117325/

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York, Susannah. "I've struggled so hard to reign in my temper because it actually terrifies me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-struggled-so-hard-to-reign-in-my-temper-117325/.

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"I've struggled so hard to reign in my temper because it actually terrifies me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-struggled-so-hard-to-reign-in-my-temper-117325/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.

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Susannah York (January 9, 1939 - January 15, 2011) was a Actress from United Kingdom.

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