"I've tried to avoid labels, but they always find you"
About this Quote
Brite's intent feels less like a manifesto than a weary field report. Coming out of the 1990s alt-lit ecosystem (goth, queer, horror-adjacent), Brite built a career on characters who blur boundaries: gender, desire, morality, even genre. That slipperiness is the point, and the sentence protects it. But the subtext admits defeat, too. "They" suggests an outside force - critics, marketers, interviewers, fans, institutions - that treats labels as a tool of control: a way to shelve, sell, flatter, dismiss, or police.
What makes the quote work is its inversion of agency. Labels don't get chosen; they "find" you, like a curse or a stalker. It's darkly funny in the way Brite often is: the deadpan acknowledgement that the culture's filing system has teeth. Even when labels offer community - queer, goth, Southern, transgressive - they also calcify. The line captures that tension: wanting the shelter of belonging without becoming a product, a stereotype, or a case study.
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| Topic | Freedom |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brite, Poppy Z. (2026, January 16). I've tried to avoid labels, but they always find you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-tried-to-avoid-labels-but-they-always-find-you-93000/
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Brite, Poppy Z. "I've tried to avoid labels, but they always find you." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-tried-to-avoid-labels-but-they-always-find-you-93000/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've tried to avoid labels, but they always find you." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-tried-to-avoid-labels-but-they-always-find-you-93000/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




