"Jill and I arrange our lives to spend a lot of time together. That makes us both happy"
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The subtext is craft. Wagner frames intimacy as an ongoing production decision, not a lucky accident. That phrasing also dodges the mushy myth that long relationships survive on feelings alone. “That makes us both happy” is almost blunt to the point of austerity, and that’s the point: happiness isn’t presented as a dramatic high, but as the measurable outcome of priorities. It’s a line that normalizes effort without turning it into martyrdom.
Context matters, too. Wagner’s public life has long been shadowed by scrutiny and tragedy; the quote carries the calm tone of someone aware that narratives get imposed on you whether you like it or not. So he offers a counter-narrative that can’t easily be sensationalized: companionship as a chosen structure. The intent is less to prove love than to define it on his own, disarmingly practical terms.
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| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wagner, Robert. (2026, January 16). Jill and I arrange our lives to spend a lot of time together. That makes us both happy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/jill-and-i-arrange-our-lives-to-spend-a-lot-of-88595/
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Wagner, Robert. "Jill and I arrange our lives to spend a lot of time together. That makes us both happy." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/jill-and-i-arrange-our-lives-to-spend-a-lot-of-88595/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Jill and I arrange our lives to spend a lot of time together. That makes us both happy." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/jill-and-i-arrange-our-lives-to-spend-a-lot-of-88595/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






