"Joy is a subtle elf; I think one's happiest when he forgets himself"
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“Forget himself” carries a darker subtext in Tourneur’s world. His plays trade in masks, courtly performance, and the corrosive self-consciousness of ambition. To forget oneself isn’t just to relax; it’s to step out of the ego’s constant accounting: status, grievance, sexual jealousy, moral scorekeeping. That’s why the sentence pivots on “I think,” a modest hedge that reads like stagecraft. It’s an aside that feels intimate, but also defensive, as if the speaker knows how easily “happiness” becomes a suspect emotion in a culture trained to read motives and plots.
The line lands because it makes joy feel both real and precarious. It suggests happiness is less a possession than a momentary release from the self as protagonist, a brief holiday from the cramped theater of introspection.
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| Topic | Joy |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tourneur, Cyril. (2026, January 16). Joy is a subtle elf; I think one's happiest when he forgets himself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/joy-is-a-subtle-elf-i-think-ones-happiest-when-he-118565/
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Tourneur, Cyril. "Joy is a subtle elf; I think one's happiest when he forgets himself." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/joy-is-a-subtle-elf-i-think-ones-happiest-when-he-118565/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Joy is a subtle elf; I think one's happiest when he forgets himself." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/joy-is-a-subtle-elf-i-think-ones-happiest-when-he-118565/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








