"Just an hour with you, and I understand why we had to meet"
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The kicker is “I understand why we had to meet.” “Had to” carries the language of necessity, as if the universe has been quietly arranging logistics. But the subtext is more human: after an intense connection, we often backfill meaning. We turn chemistry into narrative, because narrative is how we make desire feel safe, legible, and earned. The line captures that private mental move: the moment you stop asking “Do I like them?” and start asking “How did I ever not know them?”
It also fits Armatrading’s songwriting persona: emotionally direct, unsentimental, and adult about intimacy. She tends to write from the scene of the feeling rather than from the fantasy of it, which makes “understand” the operative word. This isn’t surrender; it’s recognition. In a culture that prizes either cynical detachment or overblown soulmates rhetoric, Armatrading threads a third path: the quiet shock of discovering, through simple proximity, that a meeting can retroactively feel inevitable.
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| Topic | Soulmate |
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Armatrading, Joan. (2026, January 16). Just an hour with you, and I understand why we had to meet. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/just-an-hour-with-you-and-i-understand-why-we-had-117675/
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Armatrading, Joan. "Just an hour with you, and I understand why we had to meet." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/just-an-hour-with-you-and-i-understand-why-we-had-117675/.
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"Just an hour with you, and I understand why we had to meet." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/just-an-hour-with-you-and-i-understand-why-we-had-117675/. Accessed 28 Feb. 2026.





