"Just as we outgrow a pair of trousers, we outgrow acquaintances, libraries, principles, etc., at times before they're worn out and times - and this is the worst of all - before we have new ones"
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The real bite is in his timing: we often outgrow things “before they’re worn out.” That line refuses the comforting narrative that change arrives only when something is broken. Sometimes you leave a friendship or an idea not because it failed, but because you did what living does: expanded, twisted, reoriented. Then he tightens the screw: the worst case is outgrowing old forms “before we have new ones.” That’s the awkward, under-discussed middle zone - the intellectual and emotional draftiness of transition. It’s not just loneliness; it’s epistemic precarity, a period when your former principles no longer cover you and your new ones haven’t been tailored.
Context matters: Lichtenberg, an Enlightenment-era scientist with a satirist’s eye, distrusted grand systems. His aphorisms often aim at the vanity of coherence. Here he’s warning that development isn’t clean or heroic; it’s frequently ill-timed, socially costly, and temporarily humiliating. Growth, he implies, is a little indecent: you can’t do it without ending up briefly underdressed.
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| Topic | Letting Go |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lichtenberg, Georg C. (2026, January 18). Just as we outgrow a pair of trousers, we outgrow acquaintances, libraries, principles, etc., at times before they're worn out and times - and this is the worst of all - before we have new ones. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/just-as-we-outgrow-a-pair-of-trousers-we-outgrow-13316/
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Lichtenberg, Georg C. "Just as we outgrow a pair of trousers, we outgrow acquaintances, libraries, principles, etc., at times before they're worn out and times - and this is the worst of all - before we have new ones." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/just-as-we-outgrow-a-pair-of-trousers-we-outgrow-13316/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Just as we outgrow a pair of trousers, we outgrow acquaintances, libraries, principles, etc., at times before they're worn out and times - and this is the worst of all - before we have new ones." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/just-as-we-outgrow-a-pair-of-trousers-we-outgrow-13316/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.





