"Just because you are different does not mean that you have to be rejected"
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The phrasing matters. “You are different” keeps the focus on identity as fact, not failure. Then Kitt pivots to “you have to be rejected,” exposing rejection as an imposed script, a supposedly inevitable outcome that people are trained to accept. The subtext: they’ll try to make you internalize their discomfort as your destiny. Don’t.
Coming from Kitt, the message has teeth. She moved through mid-century entertainment as a Black woman with a razor-edged persona, an unclassifiable voice, and a sexuality that didn’t ask permission. She also paid for dissent: after publicly criticizing the Vietnam War in 1968, she was effectively blacklisted in the U.S. Difference, in her life, wasn’t an abstract celebration; it was a career risk, a political risk, a social risk.
That context reframes the quote as strategy, not slogan. Kitt isn’t promising acceptance. She’s insisting that rejection is negotiable, resistible, and often undeserved - and that the first act of survival is refusing to treat other people’s prejudice as a law of nature.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kitt, Eartha. (2026, January 17). Just because you are different does not mean that you have to be rejected. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/just-because-you-are-different-does-not-mean-that-43062/
Chicago Style
Kitt, Eartha. "Just because you are different does not mean that you have to be rejected." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/just-because-you-are-different-does-not-mean-that-43062/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Just because you are different does not mean that you have to be rejected." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/just-because-you-are-different-does-not-mean-that-43062/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






