"Just in our lifetime our society has become looser and more private, it becomes extremely difficult to hold to any permanent commitment whatever, least of all to organized religion"
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The subtext is that belief is rarely a solitary act of pure conviction. Organized religion, in Douglas’s framing, is less a set of metaphysical propositions than a social technology: it requires regular attendance, visible affiliation, and a thick web of obligation. Privacy, often celebrated as liberation, becomes an acid bath for those communal reinforcements. When faith is pushed into the realm of “personal spirituality,” it can be intense yet fragile, unaccountable, easily revised - a commitment that can be redesigned like a playlist.
Context matters: Douglas built a career arguing that institutions shape how we categorize the world and manage risk. Read through that lens, her point isn’t nostalgic scolding so much as a warning about what happens when commitment is treated like an optional subscription. Permanent vows - religious, marital, civic - rely on a culture willing to make people somewhat legible to each other. Modernity’s promise of autonomy delivers real freedoms, but it also starves the very conditions that make “permanent” more than a romantic word.
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Douglas, Mary. (n.d.). Just in our lifetime our society has become looser and more private, it becomes extremely difficult to hold to any permanent commitment whatever, least of all to organized religion. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/just-in-our-lifetime-our-society-has-become-71100/
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Douglas, Mary. "Just in our lifetime our society has become looser and more private, it becomes extremely difficult to hold to any permanent commitment whatever, least of all to organized religion." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/just-in-our-lifetime-our-society-has-become-71100/.
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"Just in our lifetime our society has become looser and more private, it becomes extremely difficult to hold to any permanent commitment whatever, least of all to organized religion." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/just-in-our-lifetime-our-society-has-become-71100/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.


