"Keep your private life private. Be open to suggestions from different people. And just be nice. I have heard stories about people who are just plain rude to the press or fans"
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Her second move is more strategic: "Be open to suggestions from different people". That’s the politest possible way to describe a career built on collaboration and constant evaluation. On set, your work is endlessly noted on, reshaped, and reinterpreted. Openness reads as humility, but it’s also professional armor. It signals you’re workable, not "difficult" - a label disproportionately sticky for women in Hollywood.
Then the deceptively simple closer: "just be nice". In celebrity culture, niceness is not a moral virtue so much as a public-facing labor. Trachtenberg points to "stories" about rudeness because reputation travels faster than credits, and the press and fans are two groups you ignore at your peril. She’s describing an informal social contract: you can guard your life, but you can’t punish the people whose attention pays for it. The line lands because it admits what fame actually is - a job where manners become part of the performance.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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Trachtenberg, Michelle. (2026, January 16). Keep your private life private. Be open to suggestions from different people. And just be nice. I have heard stories about people who are just plain rude to the press or fans. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/keep-your-private-life-private-be-open-to-93861/
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Trachtenberg, Michelle. "Keep your private life private. Be open to suggestions from different people. And just be nice. I have heard stories about people who are just plain rude to the press or fans." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/keep-your-private-life-private-be-open-to-93861/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Keep your private life private. Be open to suggestions from different people. And just be nice. I have heard stories about people who are just plain rude to the press or fans." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/keep-your-private-life-private-be-open-to-93861/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





