"Kids are all computer-savvy. Sit down and write to your parents on the computer. And just say, I have some questions and I'm scared. There's some stuff I don't know and I really need to talk to you about sex. Tear it off and put it on their pillow. They'll read it"
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The subtext is a corrective to the usual culture-war framing. Adults love to complain that technology isolates children; Johanson flips it. The computer isn’t a wall, it’s a mediating object, a way to lower the emotional temperature long enough for honesty to arrive. Even the phrase “tear it off and put it on their pillow” is doing quiet cultural work: it borrows the intimacy of a bedtime ritual, the private space where care happens, while sidestepping direct confrontation. You’re not ambushing your parents in the kitchen; you’re inviting them into a conversation they can enter calmly, on their own time.
Context matters: Johanson came up as a blunt, public-facing sex educator in an era when “sex talk” was either euphemism or scandal. Her intent here isn’t to make parents comfortable. It’s to make kids safer by giving them a script that acknowledges fear without shame, and by insisting that adults, if handed the truth plainly, will often meet it.
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Johanson, Sue. (2026, January 16). Kids are all computer-savvy. Sit down and write to your parents on the computer. And just say, I have some questions and I'm scared. There's some stuff I don't know and I really need to talk to you about sex. Tear it off and put it on their pillow. They'll read it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/kids-are-all-computer-savvy-sit-down-and-write-to-135425/
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Johanson, Sue. "Kids are all computer-savvy. Sit down and write to your parents on the computer. And just say, I have some questions and I'm scared. There's some stuff I don't know and I really need to talk to you about sex. Tear it off and put it on their pillow. They'll read it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/kids-are-all-computer-savvy-sit-down-and-write-to-135425/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Kids are all computer-savvy. Sit down and write to your parents on the computer. And just say, I have some questions and I'm scared. There's some stuff I don't know and I really need to talk to you about sex. Tear it off and put it on their pillow. They'll read it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/kids-are-all-computer-savvy-sit-down-and-write-to-135425/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.




