"Kindness and politeness are not overrated at all. They're underused"
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The intent is deceptively practical. “Not overrated” answers a familiar eye-roll: the idea that kindness is naive and politeness is fake. Jones flips the frame from moralizing to supply and demand. The problem isn’t that these virtues have been oversold; it’s that they’re scarce in daily circulation. “Underused” is the key word: it treats decency like a tool we’ve stopped reaching for, not a lofty ideal we can’t live up to.
The subtext has bite. Kindness isn’t framed as weakness; it’s framed as competence. Politeness isn’t spin; it’s social infrastructure - the low-cost lubricant that keeps strangers, coworkers, and families from grinding each other down. In a moment shaped by online performative bluntness and real-world burnout, Jones’ sentence reads like an older, tired kind of wisdom: you don’t need a grand reinvention of society. You need to stop making every interaction a small war.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jones, Tommy Lee. (2026, January 11). Kindness and politeness are not overrated at all. They're underused. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/kindness-and-politeness-are-not-overrated-at-all-183724/
Chicago Style
Jones, Tommy Lee. "Kindness and politeness are not overrated at all. They're underused." FixQuotes. January 11, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/kindness-and-politeness-are-not-overrated-at-all-183724/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Kindness and politeness are not overrated at all. They're underused." FixQuotes, 11 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/kindness-and-politeness-are-not-overrated-at-all-183724/. Accessed 28 Feb. 2026.












