"Kindness can become its own motive. We are made kind by being kind"
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The first sentence is the pivot. “Kindness can become its own motive” treats morality less like a fixed inner virtue and more like a feedback loop. That’s a deeply Hoffer move: he wrote about how crowds, movements, and routines make people, not just the other way around. Here, the social and psychological mechanics are the message. Do kind acts and you begin to want to do kind acts; behavior trains desire. It’s a pragmatic ethic that dodges both cynicism (“everyone is selfish”) and sanctimony (“only the pure-hearted count”).
The subtext is sharper: waiting to feel kind before acting is a form of indulgence. The quote quietly endorses performative goodness, not as hypocrisy, but as rehearsal. If you keep practicing an outward posture of care, your interior life starts to conform. Context matters: Hoffer, a self-taught longshoreman-philosopher, distrusted lofty moral rhetoric unbacked by discipline. This is morality as workmanlike craft. You don’t discover your character; you build it, one deliberate act at a time.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
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| Source | Verified source: The Passionate State of Mind, and Other Aphorisms (Eric Hoffer, 1955)
Evidence: It is futile to judge a kind deed by its motives. Kindness can become its own motive. We are made kind by being kind. (Section/Aphorism 123 (page number not verifiable from accessible scan)). Multiple independent references attribute the line to Eric Hoffer’s book published in 1955, specifically as Section/Aphorism 123. The Internet Archive record confirms the existence and bibliographic metadata of the 1955 Harper edition, but the text is print-disabled in the browser (no searchable OCR text exposed), so I cannot directly verify the page number from the scan itself. The wording commonly circulated without the opening sentence appears to be an excerpt from the fuller aphorism quoted above, so the ‘original’ form is the full three-sentence version. Other candidates (1) We Can Be Kind (David Friedman, 2017) compilation95.0% ... Kindness can become its own motive . We are made kind by being kind . " -Eric Hoffer " Kindness is twice blessed ... |
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