"Kindness can become its own motive. We are made kind by being kind"
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The first sentence is the pivot. “Kindness can become its own motive” treats morality less like a fixed inner virtue and more like a feedback loop. That’s a deeply Hoffer move: he wrote about how crowds, movements, and routines make people, not just the other way around. Here, the social and psychological mechanics are the message. Do kind acts and you begin to want to do kind acts; behavior trains desire. It’s a pragmatic ethic that dodges both cynicism (“everyone is selfish”) and sanctimony (“only the pure-hearted count”).
The subtext is sharper: waiting to feel kind before acting is a form of indulgence. The quote quietly endorses performative goodness, not as hypocrisy, but as rehearsal. If you keep practicing an outward posture of care, your interior life starts to conform. Context matters: Hoffer, a self-taught longshoreman-philosopher, distrusted lofty moral rhetoric unbacked by discipline. This is morality as workmanlike craft. You don’t discover your character; you build it, one deliberate act at a time.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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Hoffer, Eric. (2026, January 15). Kindness can become its own motive. We are made kind by being kind. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/kindness-can-become-its-own-motive-we-are-made-15670/
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"Kindness can become its own motive. We are made kind by being kind." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/kindness-can-become-its-own-motive-we-are-made-15670/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.











