"Know, first, who you are, and then adorn yourself accordingly"
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“Adorn yourself accordingly” carries the sharper subtext: public presentation is permitted, even expected, but only as an extension of integrity. Epictetus isn’t anti-style; he’s anti-costume. He’s warning against the ancient equivalent of virtue signaling, the person who performs seriousness, wisdom, or humility while remaining undisciplined inside. For a former slave turned teacher in imperial Rome, this is also a survival ethic. When you can’t control your station, your body, or your employer, you can still control your posture toward the world - and that posture should be coherent.
The brilliance is its refusal to separate ethics from aesthetics. “Adorn” implies daily practice: the choices, habits, and even speech that make character visible. Not “be yourself” as permission, but “be yourself” as responsibility, then let the outside match the work on the inside.
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| Topic | Wisdom |
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"Know, first, who you are, and then adorn yourself accordingly." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/know-first-who-you-are-and-then-adorn-yourself-34707/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.













