"Know when to tune out, if you listen to too much advice, you may wind up making other people's mistakes"
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The line lands because it flips the usual moral of counsel culture. Advice is supposed to keep you from making mistakes; Landers points out the darker symmetry: advice can also outsource them. "Other peoples mistakes" carries quiet bite. It suggests that every confident directive comes packaged with someone elses unresolved baggage, self-justification, or survivorship bias. What worked for your aunt, your boss, or a stranger on the internet may have been an accident of timing, privilege, or sheer luck. Copy it and you inherit the blind spots.
In context, coming from a mid-century advice empire that mediated anxieties about marriage, work, and respectability, the warning reads like a pressure valve. Landers knew her readers were drowning in norms: be agreeable, be practical, dont make waves. Tuning out becomes a small act of autonomy against a culture that mistakes consensus for wisdom.
The intent is not anti-expertise; its pro-agency. Take input, but keep authorship. Otherwise youre not avoiding error, youre just leasing it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Landers, Ann. (2026, February 20). Know when to tune out, if you listen to too much advice, you may wind up making other people's mistakes. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/know-when-to-tune-out-if-you-listen-to-too-much-14277/
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Landers, Ann. "Know when to tune out, if you listen to too much advice, you may wind up making other people's mistakes." FixQuotes. February 20, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/know-when-to-tune-out-if-you-listen-to-too-much-14277/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Know when to tune out, if you listen to too much advice, you may wind up making other people's mistakes." FixQuotes, 20 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/know-when-to-tune-out-if-you-listen-to-too-much-14277/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.












