"Language is a skin: I rub my language against the other. It is as if I had words instead of fingers, or fingers at the tip of my words. My language trembles with desire"
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The line works because it collapses the distance between sign and sensation. When he imagines "words instead of fingers" (or the reverse), Barthes blurs tool and organ, grammar and nerve ending. That reversal is classic Barthes: he doesn't let language sit safely on the page as a system; he drags it into the realm of appetite, where it can misfire, arouse, embarrass. The tremble matters. It suggests both erotic anticipation and the instability of meaning - language quivers because desire is never fully satisfiable, and neither is interpretation.
Context sharpens the provocation. Writing in a post-structuralist climate that distrusted stable truths and sovereign authors, Barthes shifts critique away from verdicts and toward pleasures: the text as a site of seduction, the reader as a participant rather than a judge. Subtext: every act of speaking is also an act of wanting - for recognition, for control, for closeness - and the "other" is never just an audience but a charged surface you risk yourself against.
Quote Details
| Topic | Romantic |
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| Source | A Lover's Discourse: Fragments (Fragments d'un discours amoureux, 1977; English trans. Richard Howard, 1978) — contains the passage beginning “Language is a skin: I rub my language against the other…” |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Barthes, Roland. (2026, January 14). Language is a skin: I rub my language against the other. It is as if I had words instead of fingers, or fingers at the tip of my words. My language trembles with desire. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/language-is-a-skin-i-rub-my-language-against-the-168416/
Chicago Style
Barthes, Roland. "Language is a skin: I rub my language against the other. It is as if I had words instead of fingers, or fingers at the tip of my words. My language trembles with desire." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/language-is-a-skin-i-rub-my-language-against-the-168416/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Language is a skin: I rub my language against the other. It is as if I had words instead of fingers, or fingers at the tip of my words. My language trembles with desire." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/language-is-a-skin-i-rub-my-language-against-the-168416/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





