"LA's a very hard place to be unless you have people there that love you. It can be very, very lonely, and it can eat you up if you don't take care of yourself. In LA, nobody wants to talk to each other, everybody's giving each other catty looks"
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The repetition in “very, very lonely” and “eat you up” makes the threat feel bodily, not metaphorical. This is an actress talking about a town that trades in bodies, faces, and vibes as currency; loneliness becomes less an emotional state than a slow erosion of self-maintenance. “If you don’t take care of yourself” reads like wellness advice, but it’s also a warning about an industry that rewards overextension and punishes need. The job requires constant availability; the city normalizes it.
Then she zooms in on the micro-social texture: “nobody wants to talk,” “catty looks.” That’s not just rudeness; it’s competition disguised as indifference. Eye contact becomes an assessment, not an invitation. In a place where everyone is auditioning - for roles, for relevance, for proximity to power - small gestures turn strategic. Johansson’s subtext is blunt: LA’s loneliness isn’t accidental, it’s structural. The antidote isn’t finding better parties; it’s building real attachment in a culture that trains you to treat other people as rivals or opportunities.
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| Topic | Loneliness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Johansson, Scarlett. (2026, January 15). LA's a very hard place to be unless you have people there that love you. It can be very, very lonely, and it can eat you up if you don't take care of yourself. In LA, nobody wants to talk to each other, everybody's giving each other catty looks. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/las-a-very-hard-place-to-be-unless-you-have-132890/
Chicago Style
Johansson, Scarlett. "LA's a very hard place to be unless you have people there that love you. It can be very, very lonely, and it can eat you up if you don't take care of yourself. In LA, nobody wants to talk to each other, everybody's giving each other catty looks." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/las-a-very-hard-place-to-be-unless-you-have-132890/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"LA's a very hard place to be unless you have people there that love you. It can be very, very lonely, and it can eat you up if you don't take care of yourself. In LA, nobody wants to talk to each other, everybody's giving each other catty looks." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/las-a-very-hard-place-to-be-unless-you-have-132890/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





