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Life's Pleasures Quote by Ma Jaya

"Learn to drink as you pour, so the spiritual heart cannot run dry and you always have love to give"

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A neat trick of gentle authority is hidden in Ma Jaya's domestic metaphor: pour, drink, repeat. She takes a familiar scene - serving others - and turns it into a spiritual operating system. The line lands because it refuses the martyr myth. The usual moral script praises the one who keeps giving until they're empty, then calls the collapse "noble". Ma Jaya's advice is quieter and sharper: if you only pour, you're not virtuous, you're leaking.

"Learn to drink as you pour" sounds simple, but it's a discipline, not a slogan. It implies practice, timing, and consent. You don't wait until burnout forces a rescue; you build replenishment into the act of care itself. That subtext matters in a culture that fetishizes overwork and confuses self-erasure with generosity, especially in caregiving roles where love is treated like an infinite resource and guilt is the currency that keeps people compliant.

The phrase "spiritual heart" adds a second layer. This isn't about hydration or even basic self-care; it's about the inner reservoir that makes love feel like a choice instead of an obligation. "Cannot run dry" suggests a danger: people who give from emptiness eventually hand out something else - resentment, control, a need for praise. Ma Jaya is protecting the recipient as much as the giver.

As a teacher in the broad, spiritual sense, she offers a pragmatic ethic: love stays abundant when it's circulated, not extracted. The point isn't to give less; it's to stop making depletion the price of being good.

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Jaya, Ma. (2026, January 11). Learn to drink as you pour, so the spiritual heart cannot run dry and you always have love to give. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/learn-to-drink-as-you-pour-so-the-spiritual-heart-183899/

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Jaya, Ma. "Learn to drink as you pour, so the spiritual heart cannot run dry and you always have love to give." FixQuotes. January 11, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/learn-to-drink-as-you-pour-so-the-spiritual-heart-183899/.

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"Learn to drink as you pour, so the spiritual heart cannot run dry and you always have love to give." FixQuotes, 11 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/learn-to-drink-as-you-pour-so-the-spiritual-heart-183899/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Ma Jaya (May 26, 1940 - April 16, 2012) was a Teacher from USA.

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