"Learn to see things as they really are, not as we imagine they are"
About this Quote
What makes it work is the quiet shift from individual to collective. He doesn’t say “as you imagine,” but “as we imagine,” drafting the reader into a shared human weakness. That “we” softens the blow while widening the target: ego, bias, wishful thinking, resentment, nostalgia. It’s a compact description of how people build inner narratives to protect identity, then mistake those narratives for reality.
Context matters because Howard’s work sits in the self-help/spiritual-inquiry lane where “awakening” is less incense and more interruption. The quote is a directive for psychological hygiene: notice what you’re adding, what you’re assuming, what you’re editing out. It’s also a warning about emotional addiction. If you’re hooked on being right, being wronged, being special, your imagination becomes a courtroom stenographer, not a lens.
The subtext is uncomfortable: clarity costs. To see “things as they really are” means surrendering the pleasures of projection and the drama of interpretation. Howard is selling a tougher freedom - not the freedom to feel whatever, but the freedom from the stories that keep you stuck.
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Howard, Vernon. (2026, January 15). Learn to see things as they really are, not as we imagine they are. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/learn-to-see-things-as-they-really-are-not-as-we-148194/
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Howard, Vernon. "Learn to see things as they really are, not as we imagine they are." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/learn-to-see-things-as-they-really-are-not-as-we-148194/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Learn to see things as they really are, not as we imagine they are." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/learn-to-see-things-as-they-really-are-not-as-we-148194/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.







