"Learning music by reading about it is like making love by mail"
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The comparison works because it’s mildly scandalous but also unmistakably practical. “By mail” evokes distance, delay, and a choreography of proxies. You can send descriptions, promises, even instructions, but you can’t transmit the feedback loop that actually teaches you anything: the awkwardness, the timing, the recalibration when something doesn’t land. Music, in Pavarotti’s world, is learned in the muscles and the ear, in failure and repetition, in the real-time negotiation between intention and sound. A book can name a chord; it can’t make your hands find it under pressure, or make you listen hard enough to hear when you’re sharp.
There’s also a quiet jab at a culture that valorizes the “about” industries: critics, liner notes, masterclass spectators, the armchair expertise that grows fat on description. Coming from an opera star - a field often framed as elite and theory-heavy - the line is a democratizing provocation. Stop fetishizing the apparatus. Sing, play, stumble, try again. The point isn’t that reading is useless; it’s that without contact, it’s correspondence pretending to be intimacy.
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