"Lest Arab governments be tempted out of sheer routine to rush into impulsive rejection, let me suggest that tragedy is not what men suffer but what they miss"
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Then he pivots to the moral payload: “tragedy is not what men suffer but what they miss.” It’s a reversal that flatters Eban’s preferred audience - moderates, pragmatists, outsiders fatigued by cycles of war - while pressuring the target into the language of opportunity cost. Suffering can be worn as proof of righteousness; missed chances are quieter, less photogenic, and more damning. He’s trying to shift the emotional register from grievance to regret, from heroic endurance to wasted futures.
Context matters. Eban, Israel’s most eloquent international spokesman, often addressed global forums where narrative is leverage. This sentence is designed to travel: it’s quotable, portable, and legible to Western liberal sensibilities that prize compromise over maximalism. Subtext: the next “no” won’t just prolong pain; it will reveal a politics addicted to refusal, forfeiting agency and moral standing. It’s persuasion, but also indictment - delivered in the velvet glove of statesmanlike concern.
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Eban, Abba. (2026, January 18). Lest Arab governments be tempted out of sheer routine to rush into impulsive rejection, let me suggest that tragedy is not what men suffer but what they miss. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lest-arab-governments-be-tempted-out-of-sheer-5938/
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Eban, Abba. "Lest Arab governments be tempted out of sheer routine to rush into impulsive rejection, let me suggest that tragedy is not what men suffer but what they miss." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lest-arab-governments-be-tempted-out-of-sheer-5938/.
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"Lest Arab governments be tempted out of sheer routine to rush into impulsive rejection, let me suggest that tragedy is not what men suffer but what they miss." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lest-arab-governments-be-tempted-out-of-sheer-5938/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








