"Let him that hath no power of patience retire within himself, though even there he will have to put up with himself"
About this Quote
The intent is corrective, almost managerial. In a court culture where survival depended on timing, restraint, and reading the room, “patience” is social competence disguised as virtue. To lack it is to be dangerous: you leak your motives, you force outcomes, you lose leverage. “Retire within himself” sounds like stoic self-containment, but Gracian refuses the romantic fantasy of inner peace. If you have not cultivated patience, your interior life will be as volatile as your public one.
Subtext: the real battleground is not the world’s provocations but your craving for control. Gracian implies that impatience comes from an inability to tolerate the self in suspension - unpraised, unresolved, unserved. Even alone, you will “have to put up with himself,” a phrase that demotes the ego from sovereign to nuisance.
Context matters: a 17th-century moralist writing amid political intrigue and Counter-Reformation discipline. Gracian’s philosophy is less about transcendent enlightenment than about operating in hostile systems without being mastered by your own reactions. Patience becomes strategy, ethics, and psychological realism in one clean, cutting sentence.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
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| Source | Maxim from The Art of Worldly Wisdom (Oraculo manual y arte de prudencia), Baltasar Gracián (1647). Found in English translations of Gracián's maxims (various editions titled The Pocket Oracle, The Art of Prudence / The Art of Worldly Wisdom). |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gracian, Baltasar. (2026, January 17). Let him that hath no power of patience retire within himself, though even there he will have to put up with himself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/let-him-that-hath-no-power-of-patience-retire-46748/
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Gracian, Baltasar. "Let him that hath no power of patience retire within himself, though even there he will have to put up with himself." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/let-him-that-hath-no-power-of-patience-retire-46748/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Let him that hath no power of patience retire within himself, though even there he will have to put up with himself." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/let-him-that-hath-no-power-of-patience-retire-46748/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.












