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Life & Wisdom Quote by Rainer Maria Rilke

"Let life happen to you. Believe me: life is in the right, always"

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Rilke doesn’t offer comfort here so much as a dare: stop trying to litigate your own existence. “Let life happen to you” is an anti-control manifesto dressed up as reassurance, a line that sounds passive until you realize how aggressive it is toward the modern reflex to manage, optimize, and pre-approve every feeling. He’s asking for a kind of radical consent to experience, even when it arrives as boredom, grief, confusion, or the slow ache of not knowing what you’re doing.

“Life is in the right, always” lands with deliberate provocation. It’s not saying life is fair or kind; it’s saying life is authoritative. The subtext is that your impulse to declare parts of living “wrong” is often just fear dressed as judgment. Rilke’s move is to shift the burden of proof: instead of demanding that life justify itself to you, you’re invited to assume that whatever is unfolding has a logic you can’t yet read. That’s not naïveté; it’s a training in patience.

Context matters: Rilke’s letters and poems repeatedly circle the idea that transformation requires exposure, not protection. He lived in an era unsettled by modernization and psychic theory, when inner life was becoming both spectacle and problem to solve. His answer isn’t self-help but surrender-as-discipline: trust the process, not because it’s pleasant, but because resisting it tends to shrink you. The line works because it refuses the ego’s favorite story that meaning is something you grant life, rather than something life extracts from you.

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Rilke, Rainer Maria. (2026, January 18). Let life happen to you. Believe me: life is in the right, always. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/let-life-happen-to-you-believe-me-life-is-in-the-16241/

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Rilke, Rainer Maria. "Let life happen to you. Believe me: life is in the right, always." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/let-life-happen-to-you-believe-me-life-is-in-the-16241/.

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"Let life happen to you. Believe me: life is in the right, always." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/let-life-happen-to-you-believe-me-life-is-in-the-16241/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.

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Rainer Maria Rilke

Rainer Maria Rilke (December 4, 1875 - December 29, 1926) was a Poet from Germany.

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