"Let your heart feel for the afflictions and distress of everyone, and let your hand give in proportion to your purse"
About this Quote
The subtext is classic Washington: restraint, proportion, order. He’s blessing generosity while quietly policing it. Give, yes, but don’t grandstand, don’t bankrupt your household, don’t turn benevolence into a kind of moral gambling. In a society without robust public welfare, voluntary giving had to be reliable to matter, and reliability comes from boundaries. The phrasing implies an economy of virtue: feeling is universal (“everyone”), but contribution is calibrated. That calibration both normalizes inequality (the purse sets the ceiling) and places responsibility on those with more to do more, without needing to say “the rich owe the poor.”
Context matters: Washington lived amid war, displacement, and debt, and he led people who had to imagine themselves as a “we” across colonies, classes, and competing interests. The quote models the kind of republican character he wanted in citizens and elites alike: sympathetic enough to recognize suffering, disciplined enough to respond without destabilizing the self or the social order. It’s compassion with a ledger, sentiment tethered to governance.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
|---|---|
| Source | Unverified source: From George Washington to Bushrod Washington (15 Jan 1783) (George Washington, 1783)
Evidence: Let your heart feel for the affliction, & distresses of every one, and let your hand give, in proportion to your purse, remembering always, the estimation of the Widows mite. But, that it is not every one who asketh, that deserveth charity; all however are worthy of the enquiry, or the deserving ... Other candidates (1) George Washington's Religion (Stephen J. Vicchio, 2019) compilation96.0% ... George Washington , as we shall see next in some other narratives involving the first president . In another ... ... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Washington, George. (2026, February 15). Let your heart feel for the afflictions and distress of everyone, and let your hand give in proportion to your purse. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/let-your-heart-feel-for-the-afflictions-and-33734/
Chicago Style
Washington, George. "Let your heart feel for the afflictions and distress of everyone, and let your hand give in proportion to your purse." FixQuotes. February 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/let-your-heart-feel-for-the-afflictions-and-33734/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Let your heart feel for the afflictions and distress of everyone, and let your hand give in proportion to your purse." FixQuotes, 15 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/let-your-heart-feel-for-the-afflictions-and-33734/. Accessed 28 Mar. 2026.









