"Let your hopes, not your hurts, shape your future"
About this Quote
The intent is motivational, but the subtext is theological and cultural. “Hopes” carries an implicit faith claim: the future is not closed, and you’re not abandoned to what happened to you. “Hurts” acknowledges pain without giving it the authority of final truth. That’s a key Schuller move: validate suffering just enough to feel seen, then shift quickly to agency. It’s comfort with a steering wheel.
The phrasing also smuggles in a moral preference. Hopes are framed as constructive, forward-facing, almost virtuous; hurts are positioned as shaping forces only if you allow them. For a religious audience, that dovetails with ideas of redemption and renewal. For a broader American audience steeped in therapeutic culture, it harmonizes with the language of resilience and “growth mindset.” Either way, it gently pressures the listener: if your future is misshapen, maybe you’re holding your pain too tightly.
What makes it sticky is the alliteration and symmetry (hopes/hurts, shape/future), but also the implicit promise of liberation: you can’t erase the wound, yet you can deny it authorship. It’s a consoling sentence with an edge of accountability.
Quote Details
| Topic | Letting Go |
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| Source | Attributed to Robert H. Schuller; listed on his Wikiquote page. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Schuller, Robert H. (2026, January 15). Let your hopes, not your hurts, shape your future. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/let-your-hopes-not-your-hurts-shape-your-future-16401/
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Schuller, Robert H. "Let your hopes, not your hurts, shape your future." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/let-your-hopes-not-your-hurts-shape-your-future-16401/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Let your hopes, not your hurts, shape your future." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/let-your-hopes-not-your-hurts-shape-your-future-16401/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.













