"Let's say that, in reality, I'm basically very shy when it comes to men"
About this Quote
The phrase “Let’s say” matters. It’s conversational, slightly defensive, a soft negotiation with the listener: you want the story of Donna Summer the seductress, but here’s Donna Summer the person, offering a truth in a way that won’t provoke a fight. “In reality” draws a hard line between myth and life, and “basically” hedges it again - a careful calibration from someone who’s had her body and voice turned into a commodity.
Subtext: shyness becomes both armor and critique. It suggests the gap between what the industry demands from women (availability, boldness, a constant invitation) and what many people actually feel (caution, privacy, boundaries). Coming from a Black woman whose success was tied to a genre often treated as disposable or disreputable, the admission also reads like a claim to moral agency: I can sing desire without being owned by it.
It’s a reminder that charisma isn’t the absence of fear; it’s the decision to walk onstage anyway.
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| Topic | Romantic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Summer, Donna. (2026, January 17). Let's say that, in reality, I'm basically very shy when it comes to men. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lets-say-that-in-reality-im-basically-very-shy-55909/
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Summer, Donna. "Let's say that, in reality, I'm basically very shy when it comes to men." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lets-say-that-in-reality-im-basically-very-shy-55909/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Let's say that, in reality, I'm basically very shy when it comes to men." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lets-say-that-in-reality-im-basically-very-shy-55909/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



