"Life asks not merely what you can do; it asks how much can you endure and not be spoiled"
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The phrasing “asks” turns existence into an interviewer with standards, not a random storm. It’s pastoral, but also quietly confrontational: you don’t get to define the terms. Then comes the hard hinge: endurance “and not be spoiled.” Fosdick isn’t glamorizing suffering; he’s warning about what suffering can do to a person. “Spoiled” is domestic and intimate, the word you’d use for milk gone sour or a child warped by indulgence. Applied to adults, it’s a moral diagnosis: hardship can curdle into bitterness, self-pity, cruelty, or a permanent grievance identity. Pain doesn’t automatically ennoble; it can corrode.
The subtext is a rebuttal to two temptations at once. One is triumphalism: the belief that what you can do proves what you are worth. The other is cynicism: the belief that what happened to you licenses what you become. Fosdick offers a third standard, emotionally bracing but oddly humane: the measure isn’t success, it’s whether adversity enlarges your capacity for steadiness, generosity, and unbroken inner life.
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| Topic | Resilience |
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Fosdick, Harry Emerson. (2026, January 17). Life asks not merely what you can do; it asks how much can you endure and not be spoiled. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-asks-not-merely-what-you-can-do-it-asks-how-48507/
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Fosdick, Harry Emerson. "Life asks not merely what you can do; it asks how much can you endure and not be spoiled." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-asks-not-merely-what-you-can-do-it-asks-how-48507/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Life asks not merely what you can do; it asks how much can you endure and not be spoiled." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-asks-not-merely-what-you-can-do-it-asks-how-48507/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











