"Life gives you enough hard knocks so it's unlikely you'll stay that sure of yourself"
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The intent feels double-edged. On one level it punctures bravado, especially the kind of certainty that passes for identity when you’re young: rigid opinions, fixed plans, an untested sense of self. Winterson’s subtext is that certainty is less a virtue than a fragile pose, maintained until reality introduces loss, rejection, illness, betrayal, or simply time. “Unlikely” matters: she isn’t promising character growth, just probability. Hard knocks don’t ennoble; they destabilize.
Contextually, it fits Winterson’s broader preoccupation with self-invention and the stories we tell to survive. Her work often treats identity as something written, revised, contested. This sentence acts like a revision note from life itself: you will be edited. The brilliance is its refusal to romanticize that edit. The knock isn’t a metaphorical pat; it’s impact, correction, and the forced recalibration of what you thought you knew about yourself. It’s also an argument for tenderness: if certainty is temporary, then arrogance is especially foolish, and compassion is simply realism.
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Winterson, Jeanette. (2026, January 17). Life gives you enough hard knocks so it's unlikely you'll stay that sure of yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-gives-you-enough-hard-knocks-so-its-unlikely-69375/
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Winterson, Jeanette. "Life gives you enough hard knocks so it's unlikely you'll stay that sure of yourself." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-gives-you-enough-hard-knocks-so-its-unlikely-69375/.
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"Life gives you enough hard knocks so it's unlikely you'll stay that sure of yourself." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-gives-you-enough-hard-knocks-so-its-unlikely-69375/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.









