"Life is lived on levels and arrived at in stages"
About this Quote
What makes it work is its double appeal to ambition and patience. “Levels” flatters the reader’s sense that growth is real and measurable; “stages” softens the harshness of that ladder by suggesting timing, seasonality, and readiness. It’s a rebuke to the modern itch for instant transformation: you can’t hack character, you accumulate it. The line also carries an implicit moral economy: if you’re stuck, it’s not fate, it’s formation. That subtext can be empowering or unforgiving depending on who’s reading it.
Context matters: coming out of late-20th-century self-help and faith-driven leadership culture, Cole’s framework assumes a coherent narrative arc - lessons learned, disciplines adopted, responsibilities shouldered. It’s not trying to capture life’s messiness as much as to train the will. The quote’s real intent is directional: to get you moving, step by step, toward a version of adulthood that feels earned rather than claimed.
Quote Details
| Topic | Life |
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| Source | Evidence: Life is lived on levels and arrived at in stages. (Chapter 5 (“Men Mature”), p. 71 (print page shown in the text)). This exact sentence appears in Edwin Louis Cole’s own book under the subheading “Levels of Life” in Chapter 5 (“Men Mature”). In the Scribd scan, the line is displayed with the print page number “71”. The same sentence is also repeated later in an “End Thoughts” bullet list in the same book. The scan also shows: “Copyright © 1993 Estate of Edwin Louis Cole®,” “Second Edition,” and ISBN 978-1-931682-07-7, published by Watercolor Books. I cannot determine from the available online evidence that this 1993 book is the *first-ever* publication/spoken instance of the quote, only that it is a primary-source appearance in Cole’s work. Other candidates (1) Stages of Life (Khushi Shah) compilation95.0% Khushi Shah. “ LIFE IS LIVED ON LEVELS AND ARRIVED AT IN STAGES . " Edwin Louis Cole As you grow you learn new things... |
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Cole, Edwin Louis. (2026, February 15). Life is lived on levels and arrived at in stages. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-is-lived-on-levels-and-arrived-at-in-stages-50086/
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Cole, Edwin Louis. "Life is lived on levels and arrived at in stages." FixQuotes. February 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-is-lived-on-levels-and-arrived-at-in-stages-50086/.
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"Life is lived on levels and arrived at in stages." FixQuotes, 15 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-is-lived-on-levels-and-arrived-at-in-stages-50086/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.








