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Daily Inspiration Quote by Myrna Loy

"Life, is not a having and a getting, but a being and a becoming"

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The line lands like a quiet rebuke to the whole acquisitive script we’re handed: collect credentials, stack possessions, win the room. Loy flips the grammar of ambition itself. “Having” and “getting” are transactional verbs, the language of shopping carts and status ladders. “Being” and “becoming” are existential, messier, and harder to quantify. The comma after “Life,” even does a little stage work: a pause that mimics someone catching themselves mid-thought, choosing meaning over momentum.

Coming from Myrna Loy, the subtext matters as much as the sentiment. She was a major Hollywood star built inside an industry that literally turns people into commodities - faces bought, sold, lit, and replaced. In that context, the quote reads less like a poster and more like testimony from someone who watched “getting” devour colleagues: the chase for roles, youth, approval, and a public self that never quite belongs to you. Loy’s career also spanned eras when women were expected to treat marriage and social polish as their main “having.” Her phrasing resists that tidy accounting.

What makes it work is its refusal to offer a simple alternative. “Being” isn’t passive; “becoming” implies ongoing revision, a self under construction. It’s not anti-success, it’s anti-scoreboard. The intent is to re-center value where it can’t be audited: character, presence, growth. In a culture that measures life by receipts, Loy argues for a life you can’t easily prove you’ve lived - except by how you live it.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Loy, Myrna. (2026, January 15). Life, is not a having and a getting, but a being and a becoming. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-is-not-a-having-and-a-getting-but-a-being-104888/

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Loy, Myrna. "Life, is not a having and a getting, but a being and a becoming." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-is-not-a-having-and-a-getting-but-a-being-104888/.

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"Life, is not a having and a getting, but a being and a becoming." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-is-not-a-having-and-a-getting-but-a-being-104888/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Myrna Loy (August 2, 1905 - December 14, 1993) was a Actress from USA.

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