"Life is to be lived. If you have to support yourself, you had bloody well better find some way that is going to be interesting. And you don't do that by sitting around"
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The subtext is pure Hepburn: self-sufficiency as both necessity and aesthetic. She doesn’t say find work that’s “meaningful” or “authentic.” She says “interesting” - a word with bite, suggesting curiosity, appetite, and refusal to be bored by your own existence. It’s also a quiet critique of respectable stagnation: the safest path can be its own kind of surrender.
“And you don’t do that by sitting around” lands like a closing door. No mysticism, no waiting for permission, no faith in fate. Coming from an actress who built a persona on brisk intelligence and anti-glamour candor, it reads as a manifesto against passivity. The cultural context matters: Hepburn’s career unfolded as women’s work was still treated as an exception. Her point isn’t that hustle is holy. It’s that autonomy requires motion, and an interesting life is something you construct, not something that happens to you.
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| Topic | Life |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hepburn, Katharine. (2026, January 17). Life is to be lived. If you have to support yourself, you had bloody well better find some way that is going to be interesting. And you don't do that by sitting around. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-is-to-be-lived-if-you-have-to-support-28656/
Chicago Style
Hepburn, Katharine. "Life is to be lived. If you have to support yourself, you had bloody well better find some way that is going to be interesting. And you don't do that by sitting around." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-is-to-be-lived-if-you-have-to-support-28656/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Life is to be lived. If you have to support yourself, you had bloody well better find some way that is going to be interesting. And you don't do that by sitting around." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-is-to-be-lived-if-you-have-to-support-28656/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








