"Life is too short to harbor any hostilities towards anybody"
About this Quote
The word “harbor” does a lot of work. Hostility isn’t just a feeling you have, it’s something you store, shelter, and maintain. A harbor implies infrastructure: the repeated stories you tell yourself, the playlists of old injuries, the familiar route back to resentment. That metaphor reframes anger as a kind of unpaid part-time job. The quote’s subtext is less “forgive them” than “stop subsidizing your own bitterness.”
“Any hostilities” and “towards anybody” make the statement intentionally indiscriminate, even inconvenient. No carve-outs for the person who really deserves it, no moral exemptions. That absolutism can sound idealistic, but it also reflects a performer’s lived economics of emotion: audiences come and go, fame is fragile, time is finite, and relationships can break faster than you can tour back to repair them.
In a culture that often treats grudges as proof of standards, Bryson flips the status marker. Holding on isn’t strength; it’s waste. The power here is its gentle peer pressure: if you’re still mad, you’re the one spending the minutes.
Quote Details
| Topic | Forgiveness |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: PopEntertainment: Peabo Bryson – Feel The Fire (Peabo Bryson, 1999)
Evidence: Life is too short to harbor any hostilities towards anybody.. This wording appears as a direct quote from Peabo Bryson in an interview/article posted April 26, 1999, by Jay S. Jacobs (PopEntertainment.com). In the article, the sentence is part of Bryson’s remarks about moving on from a contract dispute with Columbia and not being angry. I was not able to verify an earlier primary source (earlier interview, broadcast, speech, or lyric) in the time available; many quote-aggregation sites repeat the line without citing a primary origin. This 1999 PopEntertainment interview is the earliest citable primary-source instance I could locate via web search. Other candidates (1) Eastwatch (Script) (Game of Thrones, 2017) primary60.0% Song: "Eastwatch (Script)" by Game of Thrones |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bryson, Peabo. (2026, February 7). Life is too short to harbor any hostilities towards anybody. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-is-too-short-to-harbor-any-hostilities-80223/
Chicago Style
Bryson, Peabo. "Life is too short to harbor any hostilities towards anybody." FixQuotes. February 7, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-is-too-short-to-harbor-any-hostilities-80223/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Life is too short to harbor any hostilities towards anybody." FixQuotes, 7 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-is-too-short-to-harbor-any-hostilities-80223/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.








