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Creativity Quote by Yoko Ono

"Life with another person is always difficult"

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“Life with another person is always difficult” lands with the blunt clarity of someone who’s watched intimacy get mythologized into a lifestyle brand. Yoko Ono doesn’t dress the statement up as advice or confession; she states it like a weather report. That plainness is the point. In a culture that sells companionship as a cure-all, Ono insists on the stubborn fact of friction: two subjectivities sharing space means competing needs, mismatched rhythms, and the daily negotiation of boundaries.

The line also reads as a quiet rebuke to the romantic plotline where the right partner makes everything easy. Ono’s “always” isn’t pessimism so much as de-sentimentalization. Difficulty becomes the baseline, not the crisis. That shift matters: if struggle is expected, then the work of being with someone - communication, compromise, patience, self-interrogation - stops feeling like evidence of failure and starts looking like the actual practice.

Context sharpens it. Ono’s public life was defined by being cast as an intruder into the most famous partnership in pop, blamed for male egos and industry fractures, her own work flattened into a tabloid narrative. She’s spent decades living under the microscope that turns private dynamics into public sport. From that vantage, “difficult” isn’t just about coupledom; it’s about coexisting with anyone when projection, fame, and power are in the room.

There’s an artist’s sensibility here, too: relationships as performance, as collaboration, as endurance piece. The quote doesn’t offer consolation. It offers accuracy - and, oddly, relief.

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Ono, Yoko. (2026, January 18). Life with another person is always difficult. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-with-another-person-is-always-difficult-3866/

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Ono, Yoko. "Life with another person is always difficult." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-with-another-person-is-always-difficult-3866/.

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"Life with another person is always difficult." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-with-another-person-is-always-difficult-3866/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Yoko Ono

Yoko Ono (born February 18, 1933) is a Artist from USA.

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