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Creativity Quote by Emily Carr

"Life's an awfully lonesome affair. You come into the world alone and you go out of the world alone yet it seems to me you are more alone while living than even going and coming"

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Carr’s line lands like a cold Pacific wind: brisk, bracing, and oddly clarifying. She starts with the truism we’re trained to accept - birth and death as solitary passages - then pivots the blade. The real isolation, she argues, is the long middle, the part we’re told is crowded with connection. That reversal is the engine of the quote’s power. It doesn’t romanticize loneliness as tragic glamour; it treats it as an everyday weather system that settles in precisely where companionship is supposed to live.

As an artist, Carr is writing from a vocation that turns solitude into both tool and cost. Painting requires withdrawal: hours of looking, failing, revising, staring down a landscape until it becomes yours. The subtext is that society can tolerate the solitary at the margins - the newborn, the dying - but mistrusts the living person who remains inward. Being “more alone while living” isn’t just about lacking people; it’s about being misunderstood in plain sight, carrying perceptions and intensities that don’t translate cleanly into conversation.

Context matters. Carr worked in early 20th-century Canada, a period that prized propriety and social legibility, especially for women. Her independence, travel, and immersion in Indigenous communities placed her slightly out of frame, never fully domesticated by the world she moved through. The sentence’s plainspokenness is part of its sting: no ornate metaphor, just a hard observation. It reads like a private journal entry that refuses to stay private, turning personal alienation into an indictment of how thin our “togetherness” can be.

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Emily Carr (December 13, 1871 - March 2, 1945) was a Artist from Canada.

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