"Life's under no obligation to give us what we expect"
About this Quote
Mitchell wrote in a culture saturated with narratives of deserved outcomes: romance rewarded, virtue recognized, hard work paying off on schedule. As a novelist best known for chronicling collapse and reinvention in the American South, she understood that history does not negotiate. Wars, economic ruin, social upheaval: these are plot engines that don't care whether anyone is "ready". The line carries the cold comfort of realism, but also a kind of liberation. If life doesn't owe you, then failure isn't always a personal indictment; sometimes it's just weather.
The subtext is less stoic slogan than survival manual. It nudges the reader away from passive waiting and toward adaptive agency: if expectations are unreliable currency, resilience becomes the real wealth. Mitchell isn't preaching pessimism; she's warning against the fragile self-story that breaks the moment reality refuses to perform.
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| Topic | Life |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mitchell, Margaret. (2026, January 18). Life's under no obligation to give us what we expect. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lifes-under-no-obligation-to-give-us-what-we-23125/
Chicago Style
Mitchell, Margaret. "Life's under no obligation to give us what we expect." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lifes-under-no-obligation-to-give-us-what-we-23125/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Life's under no obligation to give us what we expect." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lifes-under-no-obligation-to-give-us-what-we-23125/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.










