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Wealth & Money Quote by John Lee Hooker

"Like you and your woman ain't gettin' along and you're in love. You can't sleep at nights. Your mind is on her - on whatever. You know, that's the blues. You can't hug that money at night. You can't kiss it"

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Hooker takes the blues out of the record groove and pins it to a sleepless body. He starts with a scene anyone who has loved and fought recognizes: lying awake, mind looping on her, on what you said, on what you meant to say. The point isn’t romance; it’s possession. The blues, in Hooker’s framing, is what happens when desire and dependence don’t line up with reality, when your emotional economy goes into overdraft.

Then he pivots to money, not as a moral lecture but as a cold audit of what actually keeps you company. “You can’t hug that money at night” is blunt on purpose. It’s a working musician’s realism, the kind born in juke joints and long drives, where cash matters but never heals the specific ache he’s describing. Hooker is rejecting the idea that survival and satisfaction are interchangeable. Money can buy distraction, not relief; it can’t answer the one question the blues keeps asking: do I still matter to the person I can’t stop thinking about?

The subtext is also about class and the postwar American promise. In a culture that treats upward mobility as therapy, Hooker insists that intimacy is the real currency, and it’s the least stable one. His language stays conversational, almost offhand, which is why it hits: it sounds like advice from a man who’s watched people chase bills to outrun loneliness and fail every time. The blues isn’t sadness in general. It’s the particular sting of not being able to hold what you need.

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Hooker, John Lee. (n.d.). Like you and your woman ain't gettin' along and you're in love. You can't sleep at nights. Your mind is on her - on whatever. You know, that's the blues. You can't hug that money at night. You can't kiss it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/like-you-and-your-woman-aint-gettin-along-and-80438/

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Hooker, John Lee. "Like you and your woman ain't gettin' along and you're in love. You can't sleep at nights. Your mind is on her - on whatever. You know, that's the blues. You can't hug that money at night. You can't kiss it." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/like-you-and-your-woman-aint-gettin-along-and-80438/.

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"Like you and your woman ain't gettin' along and you're in love. You can't sleep at nights. Your mind is on her - on whatever. You know, that's the blues. You can't hug that money at night. You can't kiss it." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/like-you-and-your-woman-aint-gettin-along-and-80438/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.

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John Lee Hooker (August 22, 1917 - June 21, 2001) was a Musician from USA.

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