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Life & Wisdom Quote by Margaret J. Wheatley

"Listening moves us closer, it helps us become more whole, more healthy, more holy. Not listening creates fragmentation, and fragmentation is the root of all suffering"

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Wheatley turns “listening” from a polite social skill into a moral technology: a practice that repairs the self and, by implication, the systems we live inside. The line works because it climbs a deliberate ladder - whole, healthy, holy - sliding from psychology to medicine to spirituality without announcing the shift. That escalation is the pitch. If listening can heal bodies and sanctify lives, then failing to listen isn’t just rude; it’s a kind of violence.

The subtext is systems-thinking, the worldview Wheatley is known for: organizations, communities, and individuals break down when feedback loops collapse. “Fragmentation” is less a mood than an operating condition - people siloed, institutions compartmentalized, narratives split into competing realities. When she calls fragmentation “the root of all suffering,” she’s not diagnosing one person’s pain; she’s naming the modern default: disconnection as infrastructure.

There’s also a quiet rebuke embedded here. Listening is framed as movement “closer,” suggesting that distance is the problem we keep choosing. In leadership culture, “communication” often means broadcasting. Wheatley flips the prestige: the higher act is receiving. Even “holy” functions strategically, not as church-talk but as a claim that attention itself can be sacred - that being truly heard restores dignity and coherence.

Context matters: Wheatley writes in an era of managerial jargon, burnout, and polarization. This sentence reads like a counter-spell to efficiency culture: slow down, attend, integrate. The promise is wholeness. The threat is fragmentation, and she’s betting you already know what that feels like.

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Wheatley, Margaret J. (n.d.). Listening moves us closer, it helps us become more whole, more healthy, more holy. Not listening creates fragmentation, and fragmentation is the root of all suffering. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/listening-moves-us-closer-it-helps-us-become-more-96800/

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Wheatley, Margaret J. "Listening moves us closer, it helps us become more whole, more healthy, more holy. Not listening creates fragmentation, and fragmentation is the root of all suffering." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/listening-moves-us-closer-it-helps-us-become-more-96800/.

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"Listening moves us closer, it helps us become more whole, more healthy, more holy. Not listening creates fragmentation, and fragmentation is the root of all suffering." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/listening-moves-us-closer-it-helps-us-become-more-96800/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Margaret J. Wheatley (born 1944) is a Writer from USA.

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