"Living in continual chaos is exhausting, frightening. The catch is that it's also very addictive"
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As an actress, and as someone whose life has long been adjacent to the machinery of show business and family mythology, Luft is speaking from a culture where intensity is routinely mistaken for authenticity. In many homes, and in plenty of careers, drama functions as currency: it organizes attention, creates roles (the fixer, the scapegoat, the star), and delivers bursts of adrenaline that can masquerade as purpose. "Addictive" hints at the feedback loop - chaos produces crises, crises produce meaning, meaning temporarily numbs the underlying dread, which then invites the next crisis.
The subtext is almost accusatory toward the self: if you're hooked on disorder, you may unconsciously sabotage peace just to feel real again. Luft's bluntness cuts through romanticized "messiness" and reframes it as dependency. It's less confession than warning label: the hardest part of escaping chaos isn't the exit, it's learning to tolerate the silence afterward.
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| Topic | Anxiety |
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Luft, Lorna. (2026, January 16). Living in continual chaos is exhausting, frightening. The catch is that it's also very addictive. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/living-in-continual-chaos-is-exhausting-84661/
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Luft, Lorna. "Living in continual chaos is exhausting, frightening. The catch is that it's also very addictive." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/living-in-continual-chaos-is-exhausting-84661/.
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"Living in continual chaos is exhausting, frightening. The catch is that it's also very addictive." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/living-in-continual-chaos-is-exhausting-84661/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







