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Daily Inspiration Quote by Simon Hoggart

"Living in New York is like being at some terrible late-night party. You're tired, you've had a headache since you arrived, but you can't leave because then you'd miss the party"

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New York, in Simon Hoggart's hands, becomes less a skyline than a social trap: a party you didn't quite choose, can't quite enjoy, and absolutely cannot abandon without anxiety. The simile is doing surgical work. A "terrible late-night party" is a scene defined by overstimulation and obligation, where the music is too loud, the conversation too performative, and the exits feel socially policed. It captures the city's signature contradiction: it exhausts you as it seduces you.

The headache "since you arrived" is key. Hoggart isn't describing a bad night; he's describing the baseline. The fatigue is chronic, the sensory overload immediate, suggesting New York's demand starts at the door and never really lets up. Yet the twist is that you "can't leave" not because someone physically stops you, but because of FOMO before FOMO had a name. The fear isn't missing happiness; it's missing the moment that will retroactively justify the suffering. New York sells that promise better than almost anywhere: endure the noise, the rent, the grind, and you might catch the one conversation, job lead, show, or sighting that turns your story into a story.

As a journalist, Hoggart is also winking at how the city manufactures narrative pressure. You're not just living there; you're collecting material, staying alert for plot. The line flatters and indicts New York at once: it can be miserable, but it makes leaving feel like opting out of relevance.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hoggart, Simon. (2026, January 16). Living in New York is like being at some terrible late-night party. You're tired, you've had a headache since you arrived, but you can't leave because then you'd miss the party. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/living-in-new-york-is-like-being-at-some-terrible-91913/

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Hoggart, Simon. "Living in New York is like being at some terrible late-night party. You're tired, you've had a headache since you arrived, but you can't leave because then you'd miss the party." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/living-in-new-york-is-like-being-at-some-terrible-91913/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Living in New York is like being at some terrible late-night party. You're tired, you've had a headache since you arrived, but you can't leave because then you'd miss the party." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/living-in-new-york-is-like-being-at-some-terrible-91913/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.

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Simon Hoggart (May 26, 1946 - January 5, 2014) was a Journalist from United Kingdom.

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