"Lonely people, in talking to each other, can make each other lonelier"
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The line also carries a distinctly theatrical suspicion of “talk” as performance. Lonely people often speak in defensive scripts: anecdotes instead of confession, jokes instead of need, opinions instead of intimacy. When both parties default to that mode, the encounter confirms the bleakest premise: I tried, and it still didn’t land. That’s how a chat can deepen isolation - not because words are absent, but because they arrive armored.
Context matters: Hellman wrote in an America where politics, reputation, and loyalty tests made friendship feel conditional. Under pressure, people learn to talk around the truth. Her sentence is a small tragedy about misfiring empathy, and a warning: companionship isn’t guaranteed by proximity or conversation. It’s built when someone risks saying the unperformable thing, and someone else chooses to hear it.
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| Topic | Loneliness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hellman, Lillian. (2026, January 15). Lonely people, in talking to each other, can make each other lonelier. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lonely-people-in-talking-to-each-other-can-make-10158/
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Hellman, Lillian. "Lonely people, in talking to each other, can make each other lonelier." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lonely-people-in-talking-to-each-other-can-make-10158/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Lonely people, in talking to each other, can make each other lonelier." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lonely-people-in-talking-to-each-other-can-make-10158/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.











