"Look, I know he's been married three times before. I accept it, but I don't want it driving up the driveway"
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The genius is how domestic the imagery is. A driveway is private territory, the threshold between public life and the curated interior where you’re supposed to feel safe. By putting “three times before” into motion, she reframes a partner’s history as something with agency and momentum, a recurring arrival that threatens to turn the present relationship into a sequel. It’s not prudishness so much as an insistence that ex-wives, old dramas, and previous versions of a person stay in the background where they belong.
As an actress’s quip, it also reads like a piece of scene dialogue that reveals character in one beat: charming, a little defensive, trying to be generous without surrendering the right to feel threatened. The subtext is negotiation: you can have your past, but don’t make me live with it. That’s why it works culturally, too. It captures the late-20th-century romance problem: we’re expected to be enlightened about baggage, yet still want love to feel like it’s arriving fresh, not pulling in with a full trunk.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tilly, Meg. (2026, January 15). Look, I know he's been married three times before. I accept it, but I don't want it driving up the driveway. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/look-i-know-hes-been-married-three-times-before-i-161545/
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Tilly, Meg. "Look, I know he's been married three times before. I accept it, but I don't want it driving up the driveway." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/look-i-know-hes-been-married-three-times-before-i-161545/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Look, I know he's been married three times before. I accept it, but I don't want it driving up the driveway." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/look-i-know-hes-been-married-three-times-before-i-161545/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






